Most salespeople struggle with this one issue—and it’s not lack of product knowledge or effort. It’s self-image.
The stereotypical image of a successful salesperson is polished, prepared, and persuasive. Think: tailored suit, confident smile, a quick answer to every objection, and a flawless pitch for every prospect.
But ask yourself honestly—what’s more important: protecting your image or closing the sale?
Don’t rush to answer. Jack didn’t either.
The Sales Story That Changed Everything
Jack, a longtime rep at Linden Oil, walked into the office of Able Manufacturing. He was greeted by Harold Covill, the president, who immediately noticed Jack’s familiar grin.
“Jack,” Harold said, “you always smile when you’ve got something new to sell us.”
Jack’s grin faded. “You may not like what I have to say,” he replied, loosening his tie. “They’re changing the formulation of the oil. It means a three-month transition for your equipment—or you can switch to our competitor. I’d understand.”
Silence followed.
Instead of launching into a pitch, Jack stayed quiet. He looked uncomfortable. Vulnerable. Honest.
Then Harold smiled. “I’ve been thinking about upgrading our equipment anyway. This makes the decision easy. Get me the specs tomorrow.”
Jack hadn’t closed the sale. Harold had.
The Hidden Power Behind Jack’s Sales Approach
Jack made the sale not by selling, but by making it safe for the prospect to talk.
He didn’t push. He didn’t pitch. He simply told the truth and gave Harold the space to respond. And because the decision came from Harold, the urgency and importance of the solution skyrocketed.
Jack's success came from letting go of the need to “look” like a salesperson—and focusing instead on having an honest conversation.
From Pitchman to Professional: Jack’s Journey
Jack’s early success was typical. A little charm, a little luck.
Then he doubled down on product knowledge. Sales spiked—but inconsistently. He kept learning more, answering faster, pitching harder. And still, his numbers bounced up and down.
The breakthrough came when Jack started doing something unusual:
He allowed himself to struggle—on purpose.
By asking instead of telling, listening instead of pitching, Jack invited the buyer to participate. He made it about them, not him.
And it worked. Consistently.
Why Struggling (Strategically) Builds Trust
Here’s the core mindset shift: your goal isn’t to impress—it’s to uncover.
When you ask open-ended questions—even when you think you know the answers—you signal humility, curiosity, and respect. You invite the prospect to lead the conversation.
And when they tell you what they actually need, you get real buying signals—not just polite objections.
The best part? When the prospect owns the reason to buy, they move forward faster.
Let Go of the Image. Focus on the Outcome.
Trying to sell your image won’t put money in the bank. Selling your product—and more importantly, helping your prospect solve a real problem—will.
Ask yourself:
Are you asking enough questions?
Are you willing to be a little uncomfortable to build trust?
Are you making it easy for your prospects to open up?
If you're ready to rethink your sales approach and focus on conversations that convert, let’s talk.
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*Note: Names in this article have been changed or presented as aliases to protect privacy or simplify the storytelling. These are not the individuals’ or companies’ actual names.*
