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Boost Your Sales Team’s Performance with Sandler’s Best Coaching Questions

Sales coaching isn’t about giving answers but asking the right questions. If you’re a sales manager or leader, your job isn’t to close deals for your reps—it’s to coach them to think, problem-solve, and sell at a higher level.

The best way to do that? Ask better questions.

Why Coaching Questions Matter in Sales

Sales reps who think critically, self-reflect, and take ownership of their deals consistently outperform those who rely on their manager for answers. When you ask great coaching questions, you empower your team to:

  • Uncover their own blind spots
  • Think through their challenges before asking for help
  • Improve decision-making and accountability
  • Develop problem-solving skills that lead to higher close rates

Here are the 7 most powerful coaching questions you can use to drive sales performance.

1. "If you were in the buyer’s shoes, what would you need to hear to move forward?"

Why It Works: This question shifts the rep’s perspective and forces them to think like the prospect. Instead of focusing on their pitch, they start focusing on what actually motivates buyers.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when a rep is struggling to get a stalled deal moving.
  • Helps reps build buyer empathy and craft more compelling value propositions.

Follow-Up Question: "What’s stopping them from saying yes right now?"

2. "What questions should you have asked earlier in the process?"

Why It Works: Sales reps often realize too late that they didn’t qualify the prospect properly. This question helps them reflect on their discovery process and identify gaps before they lose the deal.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when a deal falls apart unexpectedly.
  • Helps reps refine their lead qualification process to avoid chasing bad prospects.

Follow-Up Question: "How will you change your approach next time?"

3. "What’s the real reason this deal isn’t closing?"

Why It Works: Reps often blame external factors for lost deals—price, competition, budget. This question forces them to dig deeper and uncover the true roadblock.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when a rep keeps giving surface-level excuses for stalled deals.
  • Encourages accountability and problem-solving.

Follow-Up Question: "What’s within your control to change this outcome?"

4. "What are three ways you could handle that objection differently next time?"

Why It Works: Most reps struggle with objections because they default to defending their position instead of addressing the prospect’s concerns. This question shifts their focus to improving their response strategy.

How to Use It:

  • Use this after a rep struggles to handle an objection.
  • Helps them brainstorm multiple solutions instead of relying on a single scripted response.

Follow-Up Question: "Which response feels most natural to you?"

5. "What’s your plan for getting this deal across the finish line?"

Why It Works: Instead of telling reps what to do next, this question makes them take ownership of their deals.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when a deal is close to closing but needs a final push.
  • Encourages proactive planning instead of reactive problem-solving.

Follow-Up Question: "What’s the best way to get the prospect to commit to the next step?"

6. "What was the moment you knew this deal was at risk?"

Why It Works: This question helps reps reflect on early warning signs so they can prevent future deals from slipping away.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when reviewing lost deals to improve future sales efforts.
  • Helps reps recognize red flags earlier in the sales cycle.

Follow-Up Question: "What will you do differently next time to catch this sooner?"

7. "If you had to close this deal today, what would you do?"

Why It Works: This question forces reps to think creatively and act with urgency. Many deals stall because reps assume they need more time—but often, they just need to change their approach.

How to Use It:

  • Use this when a deal has been dragging on for too long.
  • Helps reps find creative ways to speed up the sales cycle.

Follow-Up Question: "What’s stopping you from doing that right now?"

The Secret to Great Sales Coaching? Don’t Give Answers—Ask Better Questions

Great sales leaders don’t micromanage. They develop self-sufficient, high-performing teams by asking the right coaching questions and guiding reps to their own solutions.


The more your reps learn to think critically about deals, the more deals they’ll close on their own.

Try these 7 coaching questions in your next pipeline review or 1:1 coaching session. Watch your team’s confidence, problem-solving skills, and close rates skyrocket.

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