Ask it every time.
Salespeople often fail to ask this question. Those who do consistently close more deals, shorten their sales cycles, and build stronger relationships with buyers. We'll get to it in a second.
First, a quick reality check on what qualifying actually means. It's not just getting someone to agree to a meeting.
True qualification means getting crystal clear on three things:
- Pain — Is there a real problem you can solve, and do you understand its full impact?
- Budget — Are the financial and other resources actually available to fix it?
- Decision — Who's involved in making the call, and how does that process work?
If you're fuzzy on any of these, the opportunity isn't truly qualified.
The Question Most Salespeople Ask (and Why It Backfires)
The typical approach is something like: "Hey, who has the final say on this?"
Sounds reasonable but think about how you'd answer that if a salesperson asked you. Probably something like, "Me. I make the decision." Even if that wasn't entirely true.
Why? Because that question feels intrusive, especially early in a relationship. It asks your prospect to admit they don't hold all the power, hand over sensitive internal relationship details, and potentially expose themselves to criticism by letting an unfamiliar salesperson loose on their colleagues.
No wonder people get guarded.
The Better Question
Here it is. Deceptively simple:
"Does anybody else need to be at this meeting?"
Ask this every single time you're scheduling a meeting with a prospect. It covers the same ground as the clunky decision-maker question, but it feels like a natural extension of your conversation rather than an interrogation.
This more discreet approach is likely to trigger a response that helps you dive deeper into the opportunity.
Your prospect says something like, "Oh yeah — we should probably loop in Leslie." You ask what Leslie does, and they tell you everything.
Just like that, the right people are in the room earlier in the process, your relationship deepens, and your sales cycle tightens up.
One question. Ask it every time.
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