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Are Amateur Negotiators Costing You?

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Think about how your company purchases things. Is there a structured process for engaging with vendors and partners, or does it hinge on nothing beyond the upfront price? When you sell your solution, you sell based on more than being a good bargain. But do you consider the right factors as a buyer or negotiator? More importantly, how do you approach selling situations where the only factor for them seems to be price?

In a business landscape where price often dominates discussions, distinguishing your approach as both a buyer and a seller is crucial. The key is not just to react to price demands but to steer conversations toward value, long-term benefits, and strategic alignment.

The Cost of Inexperience

Relying on amateur negotiators can be a costly mistake for any business. Amateur negotiators, often handling negotiations part-time alongside other roles, may lack a comprehensive approach. They frequently fixate on upfront price, neglecting long-term value, and fail to develop sustainable business relationships. This short-sighted approach can lead to elevated turnover among partners and solutions, ultimately increasing the real costs to your company.

So, how do you spot them and negotiate appropriately with them?

Identifying Amateur Negotiators

Amateur negotiators are often easy to spot once you know what to look for. They typically:

  • Focus Narrowly on Price: They are looking for a deal, not necessarily thinking of a long-term strategy for the organization. 
  • Lack of Plan: Amateur negotiators often lack a clear strategy or structured negotiation process. Their approach may be improvised or reactive.
  • Limited Understanding: Because they focus on cost, they don’t consider the time, energy, or people costs related to the solution. 
  • Operate in Isolation: They often make decisions without seeking input from other team members or aligning these decisions with the company’s broader strategic goals.

Strategies for Effective Negotiation

When dealing with amateur negotiators, whether within your own ranks or in other companies, adopt the following strategies:

Follow Clear Negotiation Framework

Implement structured negotiation processes that emphasize preparation, strategy, and post-negotiation review. This framework should be mandatory for all negotiators in your organization to follow, ensuring consistency. If you want more information on creating and following your own negotiation process, check out my book “Negotiating from the Inside Out.”

Train and Educate

Regular training sessions should be a staple. Focus on different aspects of negotiations and just general communication beyond your own perspective by finding what the other person values. Emphasize the importance of relationship building, understanding the total cost of ownership, and strategic alignment with vendors.

Promote Value-Based Discussions

Shift conversations from cost to value by preparing your Third-Party Stories and asking deep questions to fully understand the needs of everyone involved. Teach your people to ask bold questions softly. 

Negotiations shape the foundation of your business relationships and directly influence your operational success. By recognizing the pitfalls of amateur negotiation practices and implementing more refined, strategic approaches as both a buyer and a seller, you can protect your business from unnecessary costs and foster more profitable, enduring partnerships.

Shifting your focus from purely transactional to deeply strategic negotiations will not only save costs in the long run but will also position your company as a savvy, reliable partner in an increasingly complex market landscape.