When you think about the marketplace in which you sell, what’s your first instinct?
Do you see an abundant universe of untapped potential?
Or do you view it as a world of scarcity, opposition, and limited opportunity?
Your answer points directly to the “Attitude” corner of Sandler’s famous Success Triangle—your self-concept.
Why Attitude Matters in Sales
Your attitude is more than just optimism or pessimism. It’s a “complex mental state” that shapes how you interact with your company, your product, your market, and your relationships.
A positive mindset (choosing abundance) leads to possibility and growth.
A negative mindset (choosing scarcity) leads to limitation and missed opportunities.
This choice is always yours.
The Viktor Frankl Principle: The Space Between
Holocaust survivor and logotherapy founder Viktor Frankl once said:
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom."
This wisdom applies directly to sales. You control how you respond in every interaction, whether that’s reframing objections, spotting opportunity, or maintaining confidence in tough situations.
Your self-concept is not predetermined—it’s shaped by the choices you make in those critical moments.
The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of Success
Here’s the process in action:
Your outlook (possibility vs. limitation) shapes your beliefs.
Beliefs drive the judgments and decisions you make.
Decisions lead to actions.
Actions create outcomes that reinforce your original outlook.
In other words: your mindset becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you expect success, you’re far more likely to achieve it.
A Thought Experiment
Grab a sheet of paper (or open a blank document). Write down 2–3 areas of your professional or personal life where you currently focus more on limitation than possibility.
Now ask yourself: What benefits could I unlock if I chose to shift toward a more positive, opportunity-driven outlook?
This exercise can reveal blind spots where a simple change in perspective might accelerate your success.
Final Takeaway
Success in sales—and in life—starts between the ears. Your attitude fuels your behaviors and techniques, and ultimately determines your results.
The marketplace isn’t scarce or abundant by nature. It’s what you choose to see that matters.
Ready to improve your sales mindset and build a stronger Success Triangle? Explore how Sandler can help you and your team unlock potential you didn’t think was possible. Reach out to me here to schedule a no-stress phone call.
