The Salesperson’s Talk Show
Every salesperson carries an invisible co-host into every call — the talk show inside your head. Inner dialogue can guide and enhance performance or undermine it in real time.
Top performers don’t silence the voice — they train it.
The Neuroscience of the Inner Voice
The inner voice evolved for survival, planning, and learning. In sales, this means your mind scans for rejection, uncertainty, and risk — sometimes at the cost of presence and performance.
The inner voice defaults to a more negative tone due to evolutionary bias designed to alert and protect us from danger.
The Upside
• The inner voice drives planning and preparation
• Enhances self-awareness and learning
• Reinforces confidence and identity
• Coaches and aligns behavior to goals
The Downside
• Triggers fear of rejection
• Creates performance anxiety
• Encourages talking instead of listening
• Spurs self-criticism and hesitation
Where It Shows Up in Sales
Cold calls, objections, price discussions, and asking for the business trigger internal narratives. Managed well, they guide. Unmanaged, they interfere.
Unhelpful: “What if I blow this?”
Helpful: “Be curious. Understand their world.”
Developing a High‑Performance Inner Voice
Left unchecked our inner talk show host will default to thousands of years of evolution. It will scan the sales encounter for danger and your self talk will default to a protective and primarily negative narrative.
The inherent neuroplasticity of our brain means we can take the following steps to retrain it.
1. Awareness before control — notice without judging
2. Name the narrator — critic, worrier, perfectionist
3. Reframe — threat language → learning language
4. Performance self‑talk — “slow is smooth,” “guide, don’t chase”
In Closing
You can’t mute the inner voice — but you can retrain and coach it.
Elite sellers master their mental self-talk, creating calm presence, clear thinking, and authentic connection.
In sales, mindset isn’t everything — but without it, skill cannot perform consistently at the highest level.
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Chuck Terry, CEO/President – Sandler Denver
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